Sadly, some people do not follow the Lord, observing the lives of some Christians. Their lives do not match the Biblical standards. Hence, it hinders someone’s faith, discredits the gospel, and brings disrepute to the Church. Paul boldly writes: “We put no obstacle in anyone’s way, so that no fault may be found with our ministry.” (II Corinthians 6:3) The crowd was an obstacle to the paralyzed man and Zacchaeus coming to Jesus. (Luke 19:3; 5:17-26)
Stumbling Blocks: Insensitivity to others, hypocrisy, scandals, and scams are the stumbling blocks for many people who could come to Christ. Disciples were foolishly obstructing the children, who were brought to the Lord by their parents. (Matthew 19:14)
Self-serving behavior: Being proud, greedy, unforgiving, bitter, and gossiping are some self-serving attitudes and practices that put off those who wish to become followers of the Lord Jesus Christ. Such selfish people are not trusted by others around them, including family members.
Integrity: Christians are called to lead a holy life, with kingdom priorities and righteous values. (Matthew 6:33) In society, they should uphold biblical morality. In their profession, they should excel with integrity and diligence and make ethical decisions. The unity, purity, and loving fellowship in the church should be a visible witness in the community.
Misuse of authority: It is sad to note that Christian leaders have used their authority to fulfil carnal desires. Molesting children, immoral sex with members of the congregation, using ministry funds to promote self and gather wealth for children, manipulating donors to give, false prophecies to politicians, and empty boasts are making headlines in Christendom. Priest Eli’s sons misused their authority and privilege as priests of the Lord. (I Samuel 2:22)
Evil models: Some are abrasive, arrogant, and even sow seeds of discord among believers. (Proverbs 6:19) Such discord could split the church on racial, linguistic, ethnic or doctrinal lines. Instead of demonstrating shepherding and servant stewardship, they behave like world leaders, controlling, dictating, directing, and even demeaning others.
Am I an obstacle or a facilitator for others to come to Christ?