Givers and Takers

Alan Platt, in his book City Changers, writes that there are two kinds of people on earth: givers and takers. Wolves and goats are takers, while givers are Sheep and lambs.

Wolves They are ferocious, aggressive, and dangerous animals. For them, life philosophy is: “What’s yours is mine, and I’m going to take it.” They presume that all things belong to them, and they have an entitlement mentality. Such people take credit for others’ ideas and achievements. Many times, they make progress at the expense of others. Always like to be the centerpiece of attraction. Other people are used for their benefit, and they are unappreciated and forgotten. It is like kicking away the ladder after climbing to the top. They borrow but do not return.

Goats They are selfish. They hold tightly to what they possess. Their philosophy is: “What’s mine is mine, and I’m going to keep it.” Their things should stay with them. Such people do only their job. They neither help others nor share their expertise. For every help and favor they do, they will calculate, record, and remember. At the right time, they expect the return of the favor at the same price or cost. They save but never share with others.

Sheep They are not self-centered. They are willing to share. The Lord Jesus Christ taught: It is better to give than receive. (Acts 20:35) Such people joyfully mentor others. In teams, they contribute diligently. Loving and serving others, showing hospitality, and listening are some of their traits. Wisely plan and give for others’ benefit.

Lambs To be like lambs means becoming fully generous people. Lambs are unintimidated whether they have much or little. They know God empowers them, live in deep dependency, and live with extravagant generosity – God richly rewards the lambs. They offer career opportunities by prioritizing others’ success over personal gain. They forgive and forget instantly and surrender their comfort for the sake of others. Lose their savings to help others in need.