Some words are considered unparliamentary. They are not supposed to be used in Parliament. They could be defamatory, indecent, undignified, derogatory, mean, humiliating, and use curse words. Such words would be removed from the records. Nevertheless, such words could be used by the very same people in other public places. But Paul warns Christians not to use three kinds of unprofitable words but to use one kind of edifying word: “Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.” (Ephesians 5:4)
Filthy talk: It means foul and indecent language. It is also words of sexual abuse or obscene language. Cursing others is also filthy talk. Some people are comfortable with the scorners who talk filthily and foolishly.
Foolish talk: It is senseless, empty, meaningless talk. Fools are those who do not believe in God. Hence, foolish talk is to speak words as if God does not exist, and words against His Law and requirements. Such talks could be arrogant, in that the person exalts himself like a god.
Crude joke: People use jokes to demean people, rob their dignity, and humiliate them. It could be based on race, nationality, gender, caste, class, etc. Some joke and make a moral principle look funny, or those who uphold moral principles are considered crazy and foolish. Those who are honest and righteous become the butt of jokes of the wicked. Mockers, scorners, and teasers use crude jokes.
Thanksgiving: Disciples should always have an attitude of gratitude. Giving thanks to God, who is good, is always edifying to the soul. (Psalm 107:1) Thanking God, without forgetting, for all His bountiful blessings and benefits, is a worthy act. (Psalm 103:2) Disciples should have the discipline of giving thanks for all things, because all things work out for good for those who love Him. (Ephesians 5:20; Romans 8:28) In all circumstances and situations, disciples should give thanks to the Lord. (I Thessalonians 5:18)
Am I disciplined in my spiritual life to always speak with an attitude of thanksgiving?