Bombay High Court has adjourned to the year 2046, a Rupees 200 million defamation suit filed by a woman, who is almost 90 years old. The housing society mentioned her as a defaulter for non-payment of some dues about a decade ago. She filed a case against the management demanding money for defaming her. Despite an unconditional apology from the office-bearers, she refused to accept the apology. The frustrated judge asked her to appear after 20 years and get justice. (Times of India, 29 April 2026) Sarcastically, letting the old woman know that she may not be alive then.
Defaulter and sinner: The woman was upset as she was designated as a defaulter. When a person fails to pay the due at the given time, they will be called a defaulter. In an honour and shame culture, such a term brings shame, and some people feel hurt. The strange logic is she can be a defaulter but should not be called a defaulter. This attitude is common among all humans. One person said, “It is a sin to call someone a sinner.” He can be a sinner, but no one should point that out. However, the Bible clearly declares that all humans have sinned and come short of the glory of God. (Romans 3:23) There are no exceptions.
Unforgiving spirit: Even after getting older, the woman could not forgive others. Though they had given an unconditional apology, she refused to forgive. The Judge pointed out rightly that it was a problem of ego, and even at this old age, her ego has not been tamed. Nearing death, most people would prefer to forgive and forget, but she was adamant.
Hardened heart: Ego, pride, and a sense of honour could make a person harden his/her heart. Pharaoh asked: Who is God? Should I obey Him? In the same way, this old woman’s question is: Who are they to call me a defaulter? She could not accept the authority of the officials. Disobedience, defiance, and rebellion harden the hearts of people.
Am I an egoistic person, or a Christ-centered person?