There are many kinds of addicts: alcohol, drugs, pornography, smartphones…! Some are afflicted by achievement addiction. It is considered a psychological and neurobiological disorder. A person considers external accomplishments to determine his/her self-worth. Such achievements spike dopamine but fade quickly, leaving a craving for more. Ultimately, it could lead to burnout, broken relationships, insomnia, and even a nervous breakdown.
Self-worth: What a person does or accomplishes does not provide self-worth or self-dignity. A human’s dignity lies in knowing the truth: that they were created in the image of God. (Genesis 1:27) Then, those who repent of their sin receive in faith the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior and become a child of the Living God. (John 1:12) No one could earn or accomplish the feat of salvation by their own efforts.
Never enough syndrome: Some do not have a sense of satisfaction. They feel that something is lacking. They wish to increase, if not multiply, that. It could be popularity, wealth, power, authority, control over others, achievements in proving physical or mental prowess, or a display of skills.
Deliverance: Those who seek deliverance need to follow these steps. First, develop the spiritual discipline of always being grateful for all things. (I Thessalonians 5:18) Counting the blessings and expressing thanks to God should be a daily discipline. Second, discern and understand God’s call and purpose in life. God provides His people with tasks to accomplish according to the capacity and limits of individuals and context. Third, cultivate the godly habit of contentment, which provides great gain. (I Timothy 6:6) Without contentment, covetousness dominates a person, which drives them to seek more accomplishments. Fourth, Paul advises not to think higher than a person ought to. (Romans 12:3) Should rejoice in the call and status God has placed each disciple. Fifth, learn to depend on the grace of God, which is sufficient. God’s grace is inexhaustible and given freely to all those who love and serve Him. Sixth, a disciple should realize that the highest achievement is being steadfast in faith, leading a holy life, and being always ready for the Second Coming.
Am I an achievement addict?